Stage 0 – Indifference
A girl in the Indifference stage is neutral to a kind of value. For instance, when you first meet a girl, she isn’t desperately hoping you’re going to call her every night right off the bat because it isn’t something that’s occurred to her to want just yet. She’s indifferent; her desire for you is nonexistent.
Stage 1 – Curiosity (Transitional)
In the Curiosity stage, a girl is interested in trying something, but hasn’t actually tried it yet. She will want something – sometimes pretty badly – but since this desire isn’t tied to anything experienced yet, it fades away fast and is easily superseded; e.g., she wants to kiss a guy really bad, but he keeps stringing her along and teasing her, until you come along, sweep her off her feet, and kiss her. Now her interest has turned from him to you, and her curiosity in kissing that first guy (dork!) is probably largely forgotten (much to his consternation).
Stage 2 – Need
In the Need stage, a girl has tasted something – whether she kissed you for the first time, or you her on an incredible date, or you gave her powerful orgasms in bed – and she wants more of it.
While she’s in the Need Stage of Desire, a girl will chase after the thing she wants, often pleading, complaining, cajoling, doing nice things, causing drama, and doing anything she can as she seeks to get the thing she wants and needs more of.
When a girl is chasing after and pursuing you, her desire for you is in the Need stage.
Stage 3 – Satiation (Transitional)
In the Satiation stage, she’s now getting all that she requires of something she feels she needs. This could mean that after months of pleading, you’ve finally agreed to allow her to refer to the two of you as boyfriend and girlfriend. She’s completely 100% satisfied, and is happily in a state of contentment and bliss – at least until she gets used to having this thing she wants and starts taking it for granted.
Stage 4 – Expectation
Once a girl is used to getting all that she needs of something for a certain amount of time, she moves to the Expectation stage. In this stage, she’s grown accustomed to having her needs fulfilled, and begins taking the thing she needed so badly before for granted. She expects to get something good – you might say she feels entitled to it – and if she doesn’t receive it, she feels anger and indignation. For instance, say you were in the habit of either calling or seeing a girl every other night, and she was used to this pattern of attention from you and was in the Expectation stage regarding it. Then, suddenly, you don’t call her or see her for a week. She’ll be hurt; she’ll wonder what’s going on; and she’ll be angry at you for disappearing and not giving her what she expected from you. That’s the Expectation stage.
Stage 5 – Burden (Transitional)
The Burden stage is when a woman is receiving too much of something. Say she’s seeing a guy who calls her daily. Maybe she chased after this; maybe she wanted him calling her every day. And when he first began doing so, she was glad; she went from Need to Satiation and finally to Expectation.
But then it began becoming a burden; she had to talk to him every night. She couldn’t take a night class, or had to make sure to squeeze the call in between work and school, or after class when she was already exhausted; she couldn’t go to happy hour and a late dinner with her friends because she had to take forty minutes out of her schedule to talk to her man. She thus begins feeling weighed down and constricted, and starts viewing the thing she previously desired very much as a burden.
Stage 6 – Rejection
The Rejection stage is what a girl moves onto from the Burden stage. After feeling constricted for too long, she’ll eventually start outright protesting against and rejecting the thing she’s feeling tied down by. She feels a certain disgust for it and wants nothing to do with it anymore, and works to get it out of her life.
