One of the greatest ways to create sexual tension in a girl is to make her solve the mystery about yourself.
With this trait, you want to be the guy who she never fully understands. Nor are you someone who behaves in a predictable, boring manner.
To apply this technique, you want subtly maintain that distance, while not being an asshole about it.
There’s a very well-known economic theory called the Law of Scarcity. Put simply, a good’s value increases as its availability decreases. This same principle is easily applied to romance, as it is only human nature to want something you cannot have.
While you want to maintain a certain level of mystery with a girl, don’t use it to take advantage of insecurity. Controlling or hurting a person is never right, and it very often comes back to haunt you.
By being mysterious, you’re merely showing that you have options and could walk away at any time.
Sarging is about selling yourself. That is why great salesmen and PUAs are interlinked. Remember that women are looking for a potential mating partner, so you have to demonstrate your positive qualities and believe in what you’re selling…that is YOU.
It’s no secret that the best salesmen in the world are the ones who believe in their product 100 percent.
This all boils down to their affirmation, or belief, in what they’re selling, and that’s why it’s important to believe in yourself. Doing so will make it easier to convey the positive
qualities you have to offer women.
Knowing how to sell yourself helps you display the high social status that women find irresistible.
But what is social status?
As I previously mentioned, in the animal kingdom, a man’s values are based on his status within a social context. The more valuable you present yourself, the more you’ll display a naturally-attractive exterior.
What’s interesting is that while a woman’s looks are generally most important to a man, and a man’s ‘social value’ is generally the most attractive quality to women.
This goes beyond what you do for a living. Even if you have the crappiest job in the world, you can still be attractive to women if you know how to trigger her attraction switches.
By displaying a naturally-attractive personality when you first meet a woman, you’ll be able to transcend any minor drawbacks that you have going for you.
So how do you sell yourself?
