You’re at your local Starbucks or coffee house, either waiting in line with the rest of the drones to order and pay, or adding your sugar and
treatments to it. And there you spot a HB (hot babe).
Goals:
Again, a phone number and/or email. Unless this is a first meeting from another contact, you are probably only going to be able to seek the ability
to follow up and see her again.
Opportunities:
There are so many people who get their coffee in the morning, late-morning, noon, early afternoon, late afternoon, early evening … you’ll never have a shortage of women to approach.
Dangers:
People can be very serious about their java fix. You need to watch out for the moody ones in the morning. Beware smiling or being too joyful as you
might risk seeming annoyingly happy – and unrealistic. You’ll seem fake.
You may also be intimidated by the crowd of people in line. But rest assured that you don’t have to even ask her for her number in the store. You can always follow her outside and finish your close there, away from prying eyes.
Approach:
The first approach requires you to be in line somewhere near her. Listen to her order, if she’s in front of you. If it’s interesting, consider ordering the same thing, and then telling her, “You know, what you ordered sounded so good, I had to try it out. But if it sucks, I’m going to ask for a refund from you. Cool? Okay, then.” Just beware making it sound like you were a copycat for any other reason than you needed to try something different. Not because you were trying to impress her.
If she’s behind you in line, make it a point to let a few people get in front of you as you “try to decide what you want.” When she gets right behind you, you say, “Okay, I need to know what they’ve got here that’s good. Do you have any idea? If you give me a good hint, I’ll let you get in front of me, too. Just none of those weird teas, okay?”
Details:
Almost anything goes in this situation. Again, your dress code should be as casual as work allows, but everyone expects everyone else to be
dressed for work. It helps to frequent the same coffee places for a while so you can get a sense of who shows up at what times. Alternate locations
so that you cannot appear too familiar to any of the women, and in case you do pick up on one, you don’t have to worry about other women recognizing you as “that guy who picks up women at the coffee
shop.” You might also want to bring a friend as a wingman in this situation. So long guys, get ready to buck your life with this!
Set yourself a challenge, speak to as many strangers as possible whenever you’re outside, it does not matter whether you are in a shopping centre or in a restaurant etc. I feel this is important activity to conduct at least once every few months so you become in the habit of interacting with people in general as well as with the opposite sex. I believe that the more one interacts with strangers from different cultures, backgrounds, social classes, genders etc you will become comfortable around someone that you wouldn’t normally socialise with, think of this challenge as practice for interacting to a hot babe (HB).
To make it easier, do not pressure yourself to approach as you do not want to develop an anxiety and you do not have to approach every single girl you see, just wait for when the opportunity arises or when you can manipulate an opportunity to approach, the girl does not have to be smoking hot we are only trying to build confidence so its the interaction that counts not her looks, weight or age and remember that you do not need to get the targets phone number every time.
