The sort of stuff that I’ve been working on that I have an intuition will make me more attractive without having to expend a lot of effort with each pick-up.
I’ve internalized some of these descriptions I mentioned completely and found it has done me wonders and it will for you.
1) Self-Reliance
With the process: You’re sarging for yourself, the quality of your sex-life, rather than for any sort of need to prove yourself to anybody. You approach the girls you’re attracted to, rather than being driven by the level of vibe and spontaneity of the people you’re around. You’re able to approach by yourself in random situations because you’re a man who approaches girls he is attracted to, rather than needing a support structure of guys around you throwing you into sets.
In a pick-up: You lead the conversation in the directions you want to take it. You decide whether or not to escalate with the girl, rather than trying to wait for her lead or trying to figure out what she wants. You’re confident that what you feel like talking about is interesting enough to her and don’t entirely change your personality based on what you perceive the girl will like.
