I think that most guys would probably agree that the most difficult part of the whole dating and seduction scene is just getting to meet more
women. Everything starts there. If you meet more women, you get more phone numbers. If you get more numbers, you get more dates. If you get more dates, you get more practice. You get more success. You get more girlfriends and more… you know. Action. It is a numbers game, simply playing the odds to get what you want.
It’s a steady progression from one critical point.
Each situation where you can meet a woman will range from either “hot,” meaning that it begins with a certain amount of familiarity and trust
between you and her, or it is “cold,” meaning that it is a situation where neither of you know anything about the other.
An example of a Hot contact would be a date setup where you both have friends in common, such as a blind date. A Cold contact would be a woman you run into at the post office that you know nothing about.
When you have a choice, you want the Hot contacts. Unfortunately, these will be less frequent than the Cold contacts, so you need to hone your skills at turning the Cold ones into Hot ones. You need approaches and the skills that we teach to help you.
And always remember that your attitude and confidence is much more important than the wording. How you say it is much more important
than WHAT you say. If you come across as a self-confident man who isn’t intimidated by women, she is going to be naturally attracted to you.
It’s a built-in mechanism that is your best friend when it boils down to the moment you walk up to her. A self-confident man makes her feel secure,
and implies you are trustable.
If you see a girl you like, and think of her as a stranger, this triggers a slew of defense mechanisms designed by evolution to keep you ‘socially safe’. They are also effective at preventing nerves, so you want to avoid them. HERE is a exercise of 3 easy practical steps to seeing girls differently in the future, thus not triggering those reactions.
