Here are the top five ways men murder their conversations with women or clients before they ever even have a chance to create attraction.
Let’s face it…
If you want to create attraction in a woman or to a client… you must possess the ability to talk. You can know all the “secret attraction building techniques” in the world… but if you can’t carry a conversation…
YOU GET NO WHERE….
Right now I want to concentrate on the exact ways you’re killing your conversations… probably without realizing it.
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One should wear whatever they’re comfortable wearing, fashion sense is in the eyes of the beholder and will vary depending on age. However it is certain that certain colours, styles and accessories will attract more attention. For example have you noticed that in club girls will often remove ones with baseball cap or a nice hat and wear it, I’ve seen complete strangers do this too and it makes an excellent basis to start a conversation after you playfully fight for the cap back! beaded chains are good too the more old and rustic in appearance the better because it makes a good basis for story telling session, for example:
Today, I was at another company’s office discussing a new promising business venture that we could do together. However, the discussion was going really badly since the other company’s boss seemed very anal-rententive. He just would not compromise and this deal could get me another ferrari in a couple of months time.
Exasperated, I said that we would discuss again the next day. I walked out of the building cursing at the boss. It was already dark and I went to a pub nearby just for a drink. As I sat there, I noticed a hot blonde woman sitting across from me. I sensed an IOI and I walked over did the ice breaking opener. Thereafter, I did a couple of routines and we just chatted for about 15 minutes before I number closed. Soon, I K closed at 1 corner of the pub but I decided not to pursue it further as I noticed that she had a ring on her finger.
The next day, at the meeting, I saw the hot blonde woman sitting beside the boss. The boss introduced her as his wife! She just discreetly winked at me and seemed a little shocked to see me. The boss was as un compromising as ever.
However, the hot blonde whispered something in his ear after some time. After that, the boss just grinned and said that he would gladly accept my conditions for the deal.
It turns out that the hot blonde (the boss’s wife) was actually the main investor in the deal!
Buck My Life!
The ending can be read at http://www.forum.buckmylife.com/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12&p=30#p30
Some jokes or stories you can introduce into your routines
Have you ever spoken and wished that you could immediately take the words back…or that you could crawl into a hole?
Here are the Testimonials of a few people who did….
FIRST TESTIMONY:
I walked into a hair salon with my husband and three kids in tow and asked loudly,
‘How much do you charge for a shampoo and a blow job?’
I turned around and walked back out and never went back
My husband didn’t say a word…he knew better.
SECOND TESTIMONY:
I was at the golf store comparing different kinds of golf balls. I was unhappy with the women’s type I had been using.
After browsing for several minutes, I was approached by one of the good-looking gentlemen who works at the store.
He asked if he could help me. Without thinking, I looked at him and said, ‘I think I like playing with men’s balls .
THIRD TESTIMONY:
My sister and I were at the mall and passed by a store that sold a variety of candy and nuts.
As we were looking at the display case, the boy behind the counter asked if we needed any help.
I replied, ‘No, I’m just looking at your nuts.’
My sister started to laugh hysterically.
The boy grinned, and I turned beet-red and walked away.
To this day, my sister has never let me forget.
FOURTH TESTIMONY :
While in line at the bank one afternoon, my toddler decided to release some pent-up energy and ran amok.
I was finally able to grab hold of her after receiving looks of disgust and annoyance from other patrons.
I told her that if she did not start behaving ‘right now’ she would be punished.
To my horror, she looked me in the eye and said in a voice just as threatening,
‘If you don’t let me go right now, I will tell Grandma that I saw you kissing Daddy’s pee-pee last night!’
The silence was deafening after this enlightening exchange. Even the tellers stopped what they were doing.
I mustered up the last of my dignity and walked out of the bank with my daughter in tow.
The last thing I heard when the door closed behind me, were screams of laughter.
FIFTH TESTIMONY:
Have you ever asked your child a question too many times?
My three-year-old son had a lot of problems with potty training and I was on him constantly.
One day we stopped at Taco Bell for a quick lunch, in between errands. It was very busy, with a full dining room.
While enjoying my taco, I smelled something funny, so of course I checked my seven-month-old daughter, she was clean.
The realized that Danny had not asked to go potty in a while.
I asked him if he needed to go and he said ‘No’ .
I kept thinking
‘Oh Lord, that child has had an accident, and I don’t have any clothes with me.’
Then I said, ‘Danny, are you SURE you didn’t have an accident?’
‘No,’ he replied.
I just KNEW that he must have had an accident, because the smell was getting worse.
Soooooo, I asked one more time, ‘Danny did you have an accident ?This time he jumped up, yanked down his pants, bent over, spread his cheeks and yelled
‘SEE MOM, IT’S JUST FARTS!!’
While 30 people nearly choked to death on their tacos laughing, he calmly pulled up his pants and sat down.
An old couple made me feel better, thanking me for the best laugh they’d ever had!
LAST BUT NOT LEAST TESTIMONY:
This had most of the state of Michigan laughing for 2 days and a very embarrassed female news anchor who will, in the future, likely think before she speaks.
What happens when you predict snow but don’t get any!!??
We had a female news anchor that, the day after it was supposed to have snowed and didn’t, turned to the weatherman and asked:
‘So Bob, where’s that 8 inches you promised me last night?’
1. Don’t over use filler words like ummmmmmmm, ahhhh, soooooooooo, If you can’t think of anything, don’t say it. If you think of something, just say it.
2. Don’t reply with overly rehearsed answer’s.
3. Shit test: If she asks“Were did u get that silly hair†u say “Same place u got those funny looking shoes.â€
4. Never wait for her. If she says ’I’m going to the bathroom wait here†you say “I’m goin to the Bar to grab a drinkâ€
5. Do not show positive body language too early.
6. Don’t fidget (Remember body language is 60% of communication)
7. Don’t supplicate (So don’t be buying drinks except if in rapport)
8. Do not chase for the ‘kill’ too early.
9. Do not brag unnecessarily.
10. Do not lean in your body towards her.
Last night, I was chilling out at a club when I noticed a lady standing alone near where my table was. She was a hot blonde with sultry lips and a body that looked like she did yoga very often.
I went over and said, ”You look like a lady with a lot of class…’
Just when she faced me and was about say something, I took her right hand with my left hand, put her left hand on myright shoulder and my right arm around her waist. Read More
As you know from the previous part, I was alone with Ziyi and I was almost closing it. That was when Avril came back.
‘ Did you kiss him while I was away?’ Avril asked.
‘ Are you jealous?’ I asked.
‘Well…’ Avril stuttered.
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In the previous part, I had just managed to get her to make out with me right there on the spot. Even I was taken aback and I just went with the flow.
A few days after, I sat down to think about why exactly it worked and I came up with some explanation. This girl was nothing like a slut or a cheap game, she was just a normal chick.
Previously, Ziyi had asked me this question:
“I…†She splutters “I mean… are you? Are you hitting on me?â€
After a careful process of selection lasting all of no seconds, I decided to opt to play hard to get.
“I’m sorry, what?†I asked.
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After some more playful banter, Avril got up to use the toilet, and I’m left there with Ziyi.
There’s no such thing as good touching or bad touching in my eyes. All non-sleazy physical contact is good, as long as the woman accepts it. The way I like to break down the initial barriers with chicks physically is a little like the way you use italics in a sentence for emphasis.
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