Today, I will like to cover how to isolate your target from her friends. After you have approached a group of girls and established enough rapport, you need to separate your target from her friends so that you can proceed on your routines on her privately. It also gives her more private space and she will be less conscious of her surroundings when her friends are not around.
The goal of any approach or opener is to get you into a conversation with a group. As long as you demonstrate high status and spiking up an interesting discussion, then you’ll find that most groups will accept you.
But you have to remember that the goal of your approach is to attract a specific woman. If you’re simply talking to the group the whole night, then you’ll minimize your chances of attracting your target.
Whenever you approach a group, you should focus on separating her from her friends. Then once she’s alone you can work on building more attraction and comfort.
The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. First you want to look for genuine signs of attraction. If you don’t see any indicators of interest (IOIs), then you should make a decision. You can either switch your focus to another woman or cut the conversation short and move on.
Now if you notice that you’re target is showing signals, then you know that she is open to being isolated. At this point, you want to direct your attention to her and start building more direct attraction. By now her friends will pick up on the fact you are developing a one-on-one conversation.
When this becomes obvious, say to your target:
Today, I am going to uncover a great way to tease girls. But many guys I have seen did it wrongly and they ended up making the girl angry instead of horny.
In essence, you want to tease and make fun of a girl. But you have to do it in a way that makes her laugh and want to know more about you. The WRONG way to do is to make her pissed off and made her feel that you are a jerk!
Most guys get teasing wrong because they think it involves ridiculing a girl. They think they’re building attraction by making fun of such things as her looks, or other traits that she might be sensitive about. Unfortunately this type of behavior only ends up pissing off most women.
My advice for teasing is simple. Made your teasing in such a way that she is TRYING TO GET YOU. Make your teasing revolves around that area. Your teasing is done to trip her up and call out the behavior she’s doing to get you, instead of the other way round.
The way you can do this is to steal some of the lines traditionally used by women. For instance, you say something like “You’re trying to take advantage of me,” or “You just want me for my body” whenever she does something to you. Whenever she touches your arm, be it accidentally or with intentions, say something like, “Stop molesting me!†Read More
Approach anxiety has been a real problem to many guys. Whenever we see a hot girl we like or a business deal we want to close, we have this anxiety which holds us back. We’ve all had that terrifying fear of walking up to women and initiating a conversation.
The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to early human development. Back then, there was danger in approaching women. If you talked to a female who was attached to another man, you could get smacked over the head with a club.
As you can see, approach anxiety is a normal feeling that we all get.
But the question to ask yourself is,â€should you let it control you?â€
The answer is NO!
Although approach anxiety is common, you should not let it dominate you. You need to overcome them. Remember the best pick up artists (PUAs) in the world are the guys who overcame these feelings.
Now if you want to overcome your own anxious feelings, then you should follow the same technique which I used eliminate approach anxiety, which is to…
As you know from the previous part, I was alone with Ziyi and I was almost closing it. That was when Avril came back.
‘ Did you kiss him while I was away?’ Avril asked.
‘ Are you jealous?’ I asked.
‘Well…’ Avril stuttered.
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Today, I was at one of the major Computer Fair at Hong Kong to get a new laptop. The hall was super crowded, with lots of stinking bodies, hovering around the booths. I noticed that many of these people are not shoppers, but horny toads who are more interested in the show girls parading around the gadgets, rather than the stuff itself.
I was pissed off. What is worst is they blocked the whole passageway, making shoppers like me having a hard time to get through. I finally reached the Acer booth, and found this hot, sizzling show girl at the booth. She has dark, long flowing hair and she was wearing such hot shorts that my legs began to shake. Many guys were around her, ogling at her, making her very uncomfortable.
I inched my way towards her. Her eyes caught me and I caught a smile from her. I guessed she find it amusing I was wearing such nice, professional office wear, and have to stained my new shirt with all the sweat from the people around me. When I reached beside her, I whispered to her ear,
“You know something? You are causing a massive jam at this booth. What is more? You are not helping in the sales of the goods as you are catching too much attention on yourself and not the goods.”
In the previous part, I had just managed to get her to make out with me right there on the spot. Even I was taken aback and I just went with the flow.
A few days after, I sat down to think about why exactly it worked and I came up with some explanation. This girl was nothing like a slut or a cheap game, she was just a normal chick.
