So what is the answer to one of the most commonly asked question in dating ever since the beginning of time: how do I turn a friend in to a lover?
Simple.
It’s all a matter of know when and how to play your cards right with your target of choice.
These are my 6-steps to get you out of the friend zone and get women sexually interested in you…
1. Limit your availability.
I’m willing to bet that whenever this girl does call you, you eagerly answer the phone and chat with her for as long as she wants.
You THINK that when you spend two hours on the phone with her, sharing your life stories and telling her about the girl who broke your heart when you were in the tenth grade, you’re
building some kind of deep “connection” with her.
But what you’re actually doing is removing ANY sense of mystery about yourself, and letting her know that you have nothing else going in your life… and no other women. This is massively UN-attractive to her.
(I know that when you’re a man who is struggling with his dating life, and haven’t hooked up with a chick in a while, this takes a LOT of discipline. Your instinct is to make yourself totally
available to her and try to spend as much time as possible with her. Well, go ahead and keep doing it this way, if you want to keep wondering why women keep placing you in the friend zone…)
2. Until you’ve slept with a woman, limit your phone chats with
her to five minutes.
And don’t get caught up in constant text-messaging. Give her the sense that you’re a busy man with places to be.
Use these short phone calls, or text exchanges, to lock down your plans to see her again. Save the deep conversations for when you are actually spending time with her.
